Even a very loving woman sometimes just cannot stand her husband’s bad habits. Try to look at your husband’s oddities not with an angry woman’s eyes, but from the point of you of a doctor. You’ll be surprised with simplicity of a clue

Physiological differences between a man and a woman influence the fact that a man and a woman react to the same situation in different ways. And that is why a woman is irritated with things that seem absolutely natural for a man.

Coming home from work, a man drops a casual “hello”, forces himself to say “ok” answering to your question “how’re you” - and falls silent. Sometimes till next morning. Don’t torment yourself with doubts, that he has nothing to say and he no longer loves you.

Psychoneurologists counted that during a day a woman says about 8 thousands of words, and a man says exactly twice less. By the evening your loved man can have only 2-3 words left, and a woman will have 2-3 thousands. Here’s a conflict. A monologue that doesn’t require answering from your man will help you. And then your loved one, before going to bed, will pronounce some verbose tirade to carry out his linguistic norm. So,  a man and a woman are absolutely different.

When a man is reading a paper, external irritants, such as your voice, don’t affect him. No matter how long you may be calling him for a dinner or answer the phone, he won’t hear you, until you close his paper.

This doesn’t mean he “doesn’t give a damn about your requests”. Neuropathologists discovered that joints between left and right cerebral hemispheres answer for one’s ability to do several matters at the same time. Female brain has such joints in enough quantity, due to female hormones oestrogens, and this means a woman can polish her nails, giving valuable instructions to her husband and following life peripeteias of some soap opera heroes. A man will have to close his paper firstly, then eat his meal. And only after this you’ll be able to advance your remarks - not en masse, but one after another. For better memorization.

Most of all a woman is irritated when her husband refuses to take part in his family’s social life with a stony face. “Ungrateful!” - she thinks in a temper. No, he just cannot switch over to other questions so quickly.

Sociologists confirmed with their researches, that a majority of men consider their work to be more important than a family. So, when he continues solving important work tasks at home, on no account pester him with questions: which school to choose for your child, where we will go for a vacation or whether we will change a house. This is utter rubbish for him, in comparison with his boss’s words on a meeting as for conformity between his abilities and possibilities.

Here’s another oddity of male behavior. He can be whimpering the whole day that somebody has hidden his favorite T-shirt again, although a woman can see even with her side sight that this T-shirt is on a chair, to the right. Or he may start grumbling at children that they played with his mallet and lost it, until his loved wide would say: honey, look down, it is under your feet. In return, he can excellently see what’s happening on another side of the street through the window.  So a man and a woman have fights.

“This is his bitchiness”, - a wife will decide.
And ophthalmologists know that women have much better developed peripheral sight, which allows us seeing things to our left, right and even behind, than men. This means it isn’t developed at all in a man, and he can look well only forward and afar.

And a woman can be so offended by the fact that her husband says so little about his love for her, seldom presents her flowers and will never offer her a dinner with candle lights on a balcony that views sunset.

Psychologists assure us that the whole matter is in a specificity of male psychology. They express love not through words, but through actions. Only a very loving man will nail something, repair tap and bring out waste-bin for his much loved woman. If he does everything above-mentioned, don’t have doubts: he loves.

After receiving deep medical knowledge, we are tempted to exclaim: a man and a woman are different creatures. Women are more organized, than men. Dear ladies, please, no superciliousness. Strong ones should indulge to their loved ones’ weak points!