We used to treat every decent girl’s wish to meet a Wonderful Prince with irony. That’s why questions: How? Where? and When? is it possible to strike up an acquaintance with him are not analysed seriously
And it’s wrongly. Yeas, it’s not easy to arrange such a meeting. But game is worth the candle.
Someone thinks that there’re no Wonderful Princes already, someone says they exist somewhere, but there is not enough to go round. Meanwhile, some of us manage to meet a Prince, made of flesh and blood. This means it’s possible.
Spade-work
We’re formulating
The first necessary step is to separate your own dream from a general women’s dream and select it from a dense ring of your close friends’ dreams. The main is to distinguish your ideal from your mother’s one.
Important marks
Sign of your unpreparedness for meeting with your promised: you’re peering at a first comer heart aflutter and following showing of your advantages: long legs, knack of cooking, ability to understand everything.
Sign of your preparedness to meet your destined man: you stopped running through one and the same thought in your head like “all my friends are married??¦”
Time of meeting cannot be changed
You can be absolutely assured that a Meeting will happen right at the moment, when you’re expecting it least of all. Keeping eyes skinned is, firstly, useless, and secondly, harmful for nervous system. Why should you waste your energy reserves? It’s better to study Spanish or learn knitting. This can be useful later!
Useful information
Your dream man may turn to be your: neighbor, whom you hardly know by sight, classmate, whom you considered a feeble specimen some time, a young man, whom your relatives have been trying to acquaint you with for two years already unsuccessfully, colleague, whom you’re constantly quarrelling with, your first love or, contrary to theory of probability, your present lover.
General part
Firstly:
1. Recollect yourself and think about human qualities you consider positive and necessary for happiness.
2. Be honest with yourself. If the word “rich” is on the tip of your tongue, then formulate this way, the word “well-off” is absolutely inappropriate here.
3. Compose a list of above-mentioned qualities in written form.
4. Check whether you listed everything. Otherwise you can forget about sense of humor and will be feeling unhappy with a Prince-Bore for the whole life.
Secondly, answer following questions in detail:
1. Which relationships do you really want?
2. Which new abilities, skills and habits would you like to acquire or gain before, by and may be for the sake of meeting with your ideal?
3. What can you start doing right today, tomorrow etc. to move in given direction?
4. How will your life change, when you receive what your wish?
5. How will you change with new skills and abilities in a week, month, year?
6. Is it really what you want?
Thirdly:
Estimate, how much time it can take, so that necessary positive changes would take place in your life. Head a list of Wonderful Prince’s qualities with the date and sign it.
Attention: If an anwser to the latest question causes difficulties, come back to “Preparatory work” section and do whole work again.
Final part
When you meet your ideal, check with a composed list of a Wonderful Prince’s qualities. If you don’t see some characteristics in your loved one or list - it’s your fault. Now you will have to cultivate these qualities in him by yourself.