One needs being happy without any doping. Some people need a dose, some - a cigarette. And someone needs him. He looks at you and you already feel the happiest woman. And there is already nothing around you. But when he’s not here, you feel bad. You have withdrawals. You call him every minute, you want to hear his voice every time. But the voice in response is cold, distracted by something quite different. All except you. Possessed by love stand on the windowsill or swallow sleeping pills too often. And this is dependence. This is a drug. You need to learn relationship secrets.
All his bad words are like a poison for your heart, he slowly poisons you. Until it kills you completely. But you stand. Endure this pain. And then, when he apologizes, you forgive everything. And you feel happy again.
He is your protection and support, because he is the dearest person for you. You are vulnerable to him. And you believe in your world, despite withdrawals.
You often hear hurtful words that you are sick, crazy, psychopath … It’s true. And this disease is called love.
And all this causes these symptoms, mental disorder symptoms:
* mood swings
* appetite disorder
* decreased performance (you already cannot concentrate on any activity)
* all your conversatins are only about him, because of this there is no meaningful communication with people
* ceased looking after yourself
* serious problems with work (study)
* waiting for his call
People run away from from such a state. They do not like pessimism. And no one can understand this. Even he. Because your obsession is annoying. He begins blaming you think about nothing. You just become not interesting fot him. He just wants to escape from such molestation! And you think only about him. And you stand these robustness of your insolvency.
Even if the most beautiful woman loves a man madly, he still tries to stay away from her. Because by nature man is a hunter and he has to chase prey, not vice versa.
When a man seeks, essentially, it becomes uninteresting for him.
So it happens. I felt it myself.
I think medication will help here. But nothing will help from such crazy love.
What is the cause of this disease? A lot of. But mostly it comes from childhood. Maybe a daughter received not enough love from her father. And she has a distorted impression of men. In general, some sort of psychological trauma.
What to do not to go crazy?
You just love your love, not him!
Set clock back and see what you had before you fell in love. What were your interests, friends … recall and remember. Strain your brain!
Try to fewer reduce your thoughts to the object of your adoration.
Write down, in the end, all you were striving for (what has been forgotten), attach to the forefront and look when you start feeling sad for him! Try to draw it in the form of a circle and fill. What do you like most: a car, apartment, high-paid job …
Set to business!
Treatment will pass not so quickly. But you must work hard!
Improve your appearance. Then people will pay attention to you. Thus, you will take revenge on him and raise your self-esteem.
Try to get rid of his things. No matter how strong you would not want to get rid of them. You must transcend yourself. In a pinch, ask a girlfriend to do it for you. There will be a pity to tear your teddy bear to pieces, but it’s fun!
Live your life and do not let yourself being hurt.
Priscilla
May 4th, 2011 at 5:08 am
Omg!!!!! Are you a psychologist or what?