Woman’s Passions

First look is very important, as not only duration of relationships depends on it, but also possibility of acquaintance itself. After you make proper impression, you just have to fix the result and raise funds. That’s why you cannot disregard even small things and should understand very well what you see and what you would like to see in your potential partner.

Why do men like some women and feel indifference or even dislike towards others? We can discuss beauty, tastes, similarity with his mother and etc. In general, all this is right, but a man still takes decision whether he should or shouldn’t be with this woman on a subconscious level. And it is later explained by all above-mentioned factors. What does male subconsciousness expect from female appearance?

Strangely enough, but even if there’s not a thought about prolongation of family in a man’s head, he will still choose a woman, basing on her possibilities to give birth to healthy posterity. It is nature that placed a request for impregnation deep in a man’s subcortex and made him dancing to basic instinct’s tune.

It is concluded not in possibility of coitus, but in the fact that this coitus would be ended with conception. And nature provided man with strong sexual desire and woman - with a wish to seduce and be desired. What man likes in woman first of all, what attracts and excites him, signals about her reproductive abilities subconsciously. For example, a common standard 90-60-90 meets these requirements exactly. Figures can be different, but general principle of proportionality should be kept.

Thin waist, splendid bust and equivalent hips. We think it’s beautiful, as a woman with these proportions can bear and give birth to a baby easier. Stock of adipose cells is kept in hips (no matter how sad it is). In case of hunger they are used and allow fetus to survive, providing him with necessary nutrition. Good bust in its turn helps feeding fetus. This fact is completely proven by statistics. Men were shown photos of women with different figures: rectangular, pear-shaped, three-cornered (wide shoulders - narrow pelvis). Overwhelming majority chose tempting “guitar-shaped” figures as the most attractive type.

We need to say that women’s preferences are also based on reproductive factor. When a woman looks narrowly at a man, who offers her an acquaintance, a woman estimates his “productive” qualities on a subconscious level. Men with good athletic build, healthy teeth, and attractive appearance are more in demand, than their less lucky frail brothers. A woman fixes her sympathies for a man consciously, and chooses genes for a future baby unconsciously. A man can offer intelligence, talent, leader potential and charisma, as an alternative to attractive appearance. There’re lots of such examples. Napoleon or Alexander Macedonian had low height and not so attractive features, however not a woman could resist them.
Partner’s financial stability is important for women right because of reproductive interests. During many centuries a woman’s and children’s survival depended on a man’s ability to support them. This rule took root in a woman’s subconsciousness strongly. And now even quite well-off women prefer richer partners, than themselves.

Impossibility to combine all necessary qualities in one “bottle” (appearance, intelligence, prosperity, talent and etc.) often makes woman drawing paternity. After she marries a rich and financially stable man, but not very attractive physically, she conceives posterity with some strong handsome man, giving the first one a possibility to grow a healthy and strong baby.

- well-groomed appearance. Good teeth (teeth tell about state of health), fresh smell, neatness;

- financial stability. Men demonstrate it most often. Car, house, position, rich father give other less successful candidates odds;

- intellect and talent. Nobel Prize and fame allow hiding other features of one’s character successfully.

- and it’s better not to show buffoonery, dandyism and your man’s triumphs.

- here sexual appeal is on the first place. It is desire to have a woman, not learning her inner world, which explains intension and rush of courting. Even cleverest and most perspicacious men are caught by sexuality.

- inner qualities are brought to the forefront little later, when first sexual tension falls. Now you can demonstrate him your intellect and erudition, but in permissible limits, in order not to form an inferiority complex in a poor man;

- and for the first look show him your legs in a seductive skirt, not Shakespeare knowledge. A beautiful bust and significant looks, not a skill to solve L’Hospital theorem. An effective method, approved through ages.

Of course, human communication cannot be brought to a problem of child-bearing. However, this law works perfectly in a question of sexual relationships. Some variations are possible, but in general our interest to opposite sex is based right on subconscious striving to prolongation of family. And it determines our sexual passions and tastes.