Despite a rollicking tone of the following tips, they are based on professional psychologists’ serious work - Philippe Sollers and Julia Kristeva. This book was sold out in millions of copies in USA, and produced a real boom. Reprints in Europe also had a stunning success.

To successfully use proposed councils, one must understand a simple truth: a man is a robot, and his brain is controlled by a limited number of programs. A man was created to perform a number of functions - to be a husband, father, driver and provider. A woman should guide his actions skillfully, launching a particular program in time. Want to run a perfect marriage program?  Then forward!

1. Be unique

Neither wealth nor beauty, nor even intelligence are required. You just need to build self-confidence and female optimism, convince yourself you need just need marriage, and feel free to come to your goal. You don’t care about other people. You are unique! A smart and decent man will notice and appreciate you.

2. Do not talk to a man first, and, moreover, do not invite him to dance

Otherwise, how can you know he noticed you, and that he is a brought up man? We will adhere to a natural order of things: a man is caring for a woman, not vice versa.

3. Do not scan for men, and show undue garrulity

Your willingness to strike up an acquaintance should be represented only by a lovely smile. By no means look into his eyes even during the first date - he can feel like a victim and escape. During a dialogue listen to his passages with patience and draw conclusions.

4. Do not pay in restaurants or cafes, and never take out your wallet

Men like when they are challenged. Do not simplify the task to them - they can relax. Equality is good for working relationship, but in love field a man should always be a chancellor that provides gifts for his woman.

5. Never call him first

If you call him, he will think he already conquered you. So calls are allowed only to clarify any significant details, but in no case for date appointment. If want to hear his voice, call him home in working time and listen to voice mail.

6. Let him feeling «hunger» to communicate with you

Do not make phone conversations with him longer than 10 minutes. There is no need for him to feel he can sit in a comfortable chair and play nice conversation with a darling woman.

7. Do not agree on the date for Saturday later than Wednesday

He should take care of it before - in the first half of the week. In addition to him, you have many other problems, so he must ask for your precious attention beforehand. No calls in the last minute! He should not have any idea that you are always at his disposal.

8. Do not pine on the eve of visit

Let the day being filled with matters. Do not talk about his candidacy with your girlfriends.

9. Particular attention to the first three dates!

Do not dream of possible scenarios of dates. For the first time, do not invite him to your place. When parting, look at the watch and notice you have something to do.

10. Kiss - only on the cheek!

While parting, after one of these visits, you can allow him kissing you. But only on the cheek, men wish all at once. Therefore, he must be oriented in the beginning - whose foot is on the brake pedal.

11. The initiative is still in his hands

After meeting do not call him first - a man himself should take an interest and desire.

12. Gifts for woman

If he does not give you something for a holiday - New Year or Valentine’s Day - away with him!! Everyone can treat with coffee and champagne, but a man with serious intentions should necessarily think about gifts for woman, and the question is not in their price - a desire to give you something should go from the heart.

13. Your meetings should occur no more than twice a week

Men should be kept in line - you’ll see him every day after the wedding.

14. Control your emotions

It is necessary to withstand a proper pause before the first sexual intimacy. And do not forget about condoms. At least for the first time.

15. Do not place him objectives and give directions

Men believe they are free humans. There is no need to deprive them of that illusion. If after several months of communication, he did not invite you to his parents and friends, do not insist - everything is good in its season.

16. Man is a leader

At least formally. He will choose cafes and restaurants to spend time, theaters to visit. And a sacramental phrase «I love you» should belong to him.

17. Do not expect he will change, and do not try to allure him

A man is a substance, not prone for changes. List his weaknesses and ask yourself a question: Can you live with them?

18. Do not hurry to reveal him your life

No man wants to solve your problems. Of course, you should not lie, but you can just keep silence about some things. Everything is good in its season.

19. Be sincere, but mysterious

Men like mystery, there’s no need to rush with explanations and revelations - let his imagination to work a bit.

20. Do not live together prior to the wedding and do not leave your staff in his apartment.

You can wait a little bit. A man must really feel the danger of losing you.

21. Relationship with a married man - risky gamble

You will need a lot of spiritual forces. To survive the separation from his wife (if there are children, it is ten times more). In addition, feeling, finally, the freedom, he may refuse doing the same thing again.

22. Do not relax after the wedding

When the goal is achieved, keep yourself in hands. Do not call him to work often. Let the initiative remains in his hands. You must continue attracting him.

23. Take things the way they are

Do not expect he will begin looking at the world with your eyes. Be tolerant to his weaknesses - you can forgive him, because now h works for two.

24. If not him, than the other one

If you venture with marriage failed, do not be upset. Two days are enough for suffering. Remember that life goes on, and there are lots of men around.

25. Love yourself

Whatever troubles may arise, do not forget life is created for you, not you for it, so try not to focus on challenges and get more pleasure.