Beware! A stunning novel between a man and a woman can come to an end very quickly, because of «easy» things we consider a manifestation of care and love, but men are afraid of them like fire.

Sometimes men disappear from our horizon, as if they did not want being with us forever just yesterday. And we can only guess the reason, looking behind perplexedly… It is likely we made one or more typical female mistakes.

Sometimes a woman thinks all is good, and a man is ready to leave.

Mistake number 1. A man and a woman competition. Any man is confident he deserves dating with the best girlfriend. The most intelligent, beautiful, stylish, skillful, sexy - the list can be continued indefinitely. Of course, it is true, but with one small «but». A girl should be better among other girls, but she should not win, compared with a man. So do not boast of your professional accomplishments, outplay him in chess five times in a row, count better, run faster, emphasize how valuable you are, and so on. He will not evaluate! Instead, tell him how proud you are of his success and victories. Otherwise, a man may think he looks pale on your background and that you eclipse him. He will imagine your leadership qualities will be realized in a family, and decide that a henpecked’s role does not attract him.

Mistake number 2. Considering that all is agreed between a man and a woman. You can estimate where you want to spend honeymoon, what a ring should look like, how many relatives ou will invite to the wedding for a long. The only condition - dream in your mind, not aloud! You are sure everything is agreed, but a man must have an «emergency exit». Not necessarily that he will use it. But the fact of emergency doors warms male soul.

Avoid phrases «cradle will look excellent here» or «let’s demolish this wall». Are you ready to move a full range of your cosmetic products five centimeters left to put his shaver and cologne? Men hate when someone is infringing on their personal territory, taking decisions for them and / or coercing to accept them. Do not tease geese - do not let your parents communicating with your beloved as to a future son-in-law.

Mistake number 3. Remembering the past. Men do not like being compared with someone. It is especially painful, when you give to understand that previous character, if not attributed to the celestial, is certainly better than your current partner. Bite your tongue, when you loved one starts eliciting which of them gives you more pleasure. Do you think he wants to hear the truth? Not at all! He just needs praise and confirmation he is the best lover.

Do not try to impress a man all his previous girls were worse than you. An attempt to seem better in a man and a woman relationship will hardly work. Most likely, your man will make a totally different conclusion that you think he’s a looser, a man who cannot make the right choice.

Mistake number 4. Consant asking «Do you love me?» Clearly, we are pleased to hear his assurances once again. A man may decide that a) you have sclerosis, b) you are in doubt about his feelings, c) you have nothing to talk about. This question can cause doubts in a man and a woman mind. Indeed - he once may think - do I love her? The result of his thinking can really dissapoint you.

Mistake number 5. Playing to the audience. Men do not like where they are «shown» around to brag. Who likes feeling himself a museum exhibit, with «do not touch» remark? By their nature, men are hunters, not trophies.

Mistake number 6. Planning in advance. «Today, we will go there, tomorrow - there, after tomorrow for mom’s pancakes » - think he likes you disposing of his life, without leaving any hint of spontaneity? Not all men like being a puppet.

Mistake number 7. Commanding parade. Do not try to break his bad habits in order writ. Conversion of an adult is ungrateful case. You can spend a lot of efforts and achieve nothing except irritation. History does not know the subjunctive mood, but it is quite appropriate in a man and a woman relationship. «I would be pleased if you stopped» sounds much better than the «Stop!».

Mistake number 8. Monitoring his every step. «Honey, where are you now?», «I called you five minutes ago, why you did not answer?», «Do you miss me?» - Maybe he misses, but is hardly ready to talk about it aloud, especially when sitting at the meeting. Call five more times - and he not only will cease being bored, but will start hating you quietly. Then he will turn off the phone, not wishing to be a dog on a short telephone wiring.

Mistake number 9. Showing self-interest in stores. «Look what a coat (Tiffany ring, Hermes scarf, Chanel bag)! It suits me so much, isn’t it? It seems we are created for each other!». Ask yourself, how many times have you said «Honey, would you like it»?

Mistake number 10. Too often saying «we». The pronoun «we» is ideal for moms and babies, who is less than a year old. An umbilical cord is already cut, but commonality still remains, because a child is fully dependent on mother. A man, unlike a child, is desperately afraid of losing the dearest thing he has - his independence.