Solving a question how to drive a guy crazy, and then build the right relationship with him, may prove very difficult. Sometimes the difference between men and women is so dramatical, that girls find it quite difficult to understand what they represent and want in reality and what men want in a woman.

Men’s psychology is much more difficult science for girls, than just psychology. However, those who possess an excellent knowledge of it, will succeed in the task of seduction.

I can identify 5 men’s secrets, from which you will learn what men are actually hiding from women.

1. What men want in a woman: your gaze, smile, approval

Intelligent men usually do not come to you being first, without woman’s signals, because they are proud, and hence vulnerable, and therefore, will think ten times (they always think - they used to) about what expects them later. Those who have simpler brains are easier to communicate. They do not think for a long. And they are ok, sometimes they achieve their goals!

What is the conclusion? If you like a man, support him, show he is interesting to you. Smile, it won’t be superfluous. Maybe you do not know about the “law of generosity”? I really like the statement from the book by Robert Kiyosaki:

“If you want to be smiled, smile first. If you want love, give love. If you want to be understood, show your understanding. If you want to get a meal, first treat somebody.” This is applied everywhere: in love, friendship, and life …

2. What men want in a woman: Men need sex

A woman always dreams that a man would be captured with her beautiful soul, sharp mind and business skills. But, alas! A man, acquainting with a lady, listens only to his libido.

So they work, these men - you should not complain! .. Sexuality and charm attract men. And every man after dating and meeting with a woman he liked madly wants to have sex.

What is the conclusion? However, knowing this, you can skillfully manipulate men. For example, hunters to keep on a string for a while and leave with nothing. Here you need to remember about the game and not to take all too seriously.

3. What men want in a woman: to be trusted. While women want to feel cared.

Maybe you noticed that men, when performing any work, rarely need any assistance and operate on the principle “By myself”. The main thing for a man is a woman’s trust.

We often want him to ask something, offer help, suggest something. Because of this difference quarrels happen very often.

What is the conclusion? Never give a man advice when he helps you. Even if he tries to do something for more than an hour, and you know seven ways to tackle this problem. Your assistance will seem offensive to him. His desire - to get a dose of admiration and praise from you.

4. Men are directed by mind in affairs, while women are directed by emotions

Women talk about feelings more, than men. Men do not like to guess hidden desires, take everything said explicitly. This does not concern everyone, there are also romantic persons among men, but they are a minority.

What is the conclusion? Say specifically what you want and do not wait he will read your thoughts.

5.  What men want in a woman: do not show you are better and smarter

I can tell a story from my personal experience. My friend liked a young man. He was fond of computers and knew almost everything about them.

Not to look a stupid one in his eyes, she also read different books and attended courses hoping to show erudition and shock with her knowledge during a conversation with him .

And once, her computer failed to operate, and she called him to see what happened to it. He came, was cheerful, talked a lot, but could not get anything done. Then she took the matter into her own hands and set her computer.

She thought she will rise in his eyes and he will begin to treat her differently. But … He was gloomy and almost never spoke, quickly resigned. Since then, they are not talking, and he avoids her.

What is the lesson? If a man is engaged in something, and you asked him for help, let him him make it to the end and be proud of himself, and you should thank him, kiss, but do not compete with him and show yourself.

Stronger sex is sure since the very beginning that they win in a discussion with a woman. Do not deprive him of this naive confidence! The best thing you can do is to develop his ideas. Ask leading questions, and occasionally exclaim: “Wow! I would never have thought!” Men call women that are listening to them attentively “intelligent”. Most like “smart women”.

So become a “smart woman” and learn what men want in a woman, start trusting him, add more approval, smiles in your behavior, express your wishes specifically, and soon you will understand that your relations are close to ideal. I wish you all the best!