Your body speaks its own language. You send sexual signals unconsciously by your behavior, gestures and pose, these signals inform your interlocutor, how much you are interested or not in him. Men always accept this information on a subconscious level, as this is laid in human instincts

Your body speaks its own language. You send sexual signals unconsciously by your behavior, gestures and pose, these signals inform your interlocutor, how much you are interested or not in him. Men always accept this information on a subconscious level, as this is laid in human instincts.
Knowing about these signals, you can use them for your benefit: save information you don’t want to share or, on the contrary, increase sexual appeal, striving to interest a man more quickly. It is noticed, that when we like someone, and he knows about it, he is inclined to treat us with sympathy. So, use “body language”, to express your attitude to a man of your interest. And remember, “gestures say more, than words”.
Of course, the first information exchange is carried out with help of
eye contact.
Firstly, people meat each other with their eyes. You can keep silence, and your eyes will tell everything for you. They can express the whole range of interest - from cold curiosity or shy interest to bold sexual appeal.
When you look narrowly into a man’s eyes during rather long time, then you in fact tell him, that at this moment he is the only interesting man for you in this room. However, such full contact is rather risky.
While first meeting or short acquaintance your look may be accepted as too bold one and will frighten off a man, who does not like or are not used to such frank behavior of women.
Shorter, but straight and open look while first meetings is also efficient, but safer. Moreover, if a man is frightened of such look and avoids looking into your eyes directly, this, as a rule, testifies of his psychological complexes. In general, a woman’s eyes - are a powerful weapon. With their help you can even make a man fall in love with you!
Make him looking into your eyes

 

One Harvard psychologist decided to measure love from scientific point of view. Somehow he managed to do it. When he measured, how much time people-in-love look at each other, he found, that those who are deeply in love look into each other’s eyes for 75% of time during conversation, while usual people look at each other for 30-60% of time during conversation.
Some psychologists use this discovery in their practice, when they need to know, how much partners are attracted to each other. This information will be useful for you too, when you need to make a man fall in love with you.
The longer a person is looking at you, the quicker his brain will note: “I’m in love”, and will start excreting phenyl-ethylamine, a hormone, synthesized in brain during love. So, the more time one spends looking into your eyes, the stronger he falls in love with you. Try to use this in practice. I think, you will be shocked by results.
Don’t look away

This is a second result of a Harvard psychologist’s researches, which will be useful for us: loving couples look away from each other unwillingly, if there’s some third person presenting during conversation. So, don’t be in a hurry to look away from a man, whom you like, even when he stopped his story or some third person broke the conversation. Of course, you cannot stare at him all the time, this would be just silly, and you will still have to look away.
 

This is a second result of a Harvard psychologist’s researches, which will be useful for us: So, don’t be in a hurry to look away from a man, whom you like, even when he stopped his story or some third person broke the conversation. Of course, you cannot stare at him all the time, this would be just silly, and you will still have to look away.

But not suddenly. Look at him at least for 3-4 seconds more, and then look away, but slowly and unwillingly. And as soon third person finishes his phrase, look at a man of your interest again. In addition, you will give him to understand, that you like him much more, than other interlocutor.
Follow pupils eyes
According to researches, pupils of our eyes carry and transfer a lot on information about a person. Scientists carried out such experiment: they showed 2 sets of photos of women to men, practically identical, but on second examples women’s pupils of eyes were enlarged deliberately. Men liked women on corrected photos much more, then on usual ones.
You cannot control size of your eye pupils knowingly. But you can create an appropriate atmosphere to enlarge your eye pupils, and gain necessary effect.
Try to make lightning subdued - eye pupils enlarge, that is why supper with candles is considered to be romantic. Subdued lightning makes face more attractive. Our eye pupils enlarge also when we look at something attractive, or think about something nice.
Smile
Smile is one of the simplest and innocent ways to show your sympathy for someone. It serves as an invitation for communication. Smile shows that you enjoy the situation, and it is catching, your interlocutor begins to like communication with you, regardless of subject. Besides, majority of people look nicer when smiling.
Crossing arms
Crossing arms is interpreted differently. On the one hand, psychologists treat this as a “closed pose”, showing, by the highest standards, that you are protecting, behave suspiciously or don’t want to communicate. But non-professionals may treat it another way. For example, like you feel vulnerable and weak - you need protection, a real man’s string shoulder.
If a man firstly likes weakness in a woman, then such pose can “work” in necessary direction. Besides, crossing arms highly on breast attracts attention. This is a strong sexual gesture, appealing to the most primitive man’s instincts.
Crossing legs

 

Another “closed pose”, which is interpreted in different ways. First of all, it shows your nervousness, as majority of people begin crossing their legs every now and then and fidget on one place during moments of worrying. Most likely, a man will treat your worrying like negative attitude toward him.
On the other hand, deliberate crossing of legs in a calm, relaxed state attracts attention to beautiful legs or hips, and your tiptoe, directed to a man, testifies of your interest to him. But still best of all will be if your pose is open, showing your complete trust and defenselessness to an interlocutor.
Incline towards him

 

Such gesture says directly about your sympathy for this man. If you really like a man, you can even lean against him slightly, but just slightly, otherwise you will get opposite result. His reaction will show how much he likes you. If he does not incline towards you in response, then, most likely, he’s not interested in you. What a pity.
If you suddenly notice that during conversation you are moving aside your interlocutor, then this means you don’t want to communicate, or you need more time to establish contact.
Touches

 

Touch to a man expresses, first of all, tenderness and usually causes back sympathy in response. Any physical contact also shows that you’re open for emotional contact. Touch should be light and surely out of sexual zones (inner surface of hips is also considered a sexual zone), otherwise a man will treat your behavior like aggressive or over-free. Touching sexual zones is appropriate only in private and while strong sexual interest to a man.
Curling a lock

 

Curling a lock is a signal of worrying, and quite often “positive”. If you caught yourself on the fact that you are playing with your hair unconsciously while a man’s presence, ask yourself: “Why does his presence make me nervous?”. Probably, because you feel heightened interest to him, which you don’t want to admit?
Curling long hair testifies of an intention to attract his look to your luxurious (so sexual!) mop of hair. Man can treat such gesture as too infantile flirting. Be careful: many men are seriously irritated by it. The thing that women consider sexual, may be quite opposite for men.
Lips lick

 

This is a clearly physiological reaction. If some of your friends tells her mouth watered when he saw a beautiful guy, don’t believe! It is impossible. While sexual excitement and worrying mouth mucous membrane always dries up. If you catch yourself that you are licking every now and then in a man’s presence, this means, that something in him extremely excites you, and, may be, you would like to see him in your bed. By the way, he will guess this soon according to this gesture. You just have to do it correctly: lick your lips with a tip of your tongue, very slowly.
Blowing nose wings

 

This gesture definitely testifies of sexual excitement. If you are talking to a man, and his nostrils are blowing from time to time, then this 100% means that at this moment tempting pictures of sex with you are flashing by his mind. This concerns you too. If you don’t want to spend this night with a man, watch your nose!
And, finally, learn relaxing in a man’s presence. When you really like someone, then, frankly speaking, first hours and days of communication with him turn just into a torture: your throat is dry, hands and feet are shaking, and mind is considering in chill what you should say to be interesting for him.
Many people, even very self-confident, begin to do small, but unpleasant mistakes while worrying - talk too quickly or knock a table unconsciously. And interlocutor, feeling your stress, begins worrying too. In this situation it is necessary to collect yourself quickly and relax: take a deep breath and try to be yourself and just enjoy communication. Disengagement and ease - this is the best line of behavior.