It is known that girls dream of good boys but love bad ones. What’s the riddle? Let us try to understand. In fact, everything is simple. Let’s consider 9 reasons.
1. Good guys like to dress well. However, after some time, I began fearing gentlemen, dolled up like a dandy. I realized they had something to hide. They do not have confidence in themselves, and are trying to compensate for that through a costume. I am a little sorry for them, and they are not interesting for me. Self-assured men feel equally good in any clothing, be it a sports suit, jeans or anything else. They are interesting in any clothing. They do not need to prove anything around. They have already proved everything.
2. Good guys are afraid to make decisions. They want you to decide where you go tonight. And not because they value your opinion. They are just trying to shift responsibility on you. They have such a bad habit - to shift responsibility. (They should better smoke!) Bad guys can make mistakes, they even may offend you, but they will not hide behind you.
3. Good guys like being with you when you are well. They have a property to go aside, as soon as there are troubles, even minor. They turn to other topics. They do not even try to help you. They will leave without any explanations. What is it? Good guys just do not burden other people’s problems on themselves, even if they are yours. They are cautious. After all, good guys do not know how to fight. And they go aside when you are in troubles. And appear again, when all have established. There is no guarantee that bad guy will help you. But he will definitely try. And there is nothing special here. He just likes feeling like a hero.
4. Good guys are easily influenced. Grandma, Aunts, Mom, Dad, best friends and so on and so forth. What does it mean for you? Just if some of his precious family does not like you, your chances are zero. And then, even if you manage to withdraw him from this influence through tremendous efforts, who knows whom he wants to hide behind next time? If someone from a bad guy’s family does not like you, he will love you even stronger. There is nothing special here too! He will just love you against other people’s opinion. He loves the process of overcoming difficulties.
5. Good guys never quarrel. In fact, they learned to hide their opinion. They remember how painful it was when they were beaten in childhood. They even wanted to attend boxing classes to learn how to fight. But mom took them to a music school. Now they can speak about a man only in his absence. Moreover, these statements are rarely positive. Bad guys are used to say what they think in person. They are not afraid to go to a conflict with, be rude. In childhood mother also tried to take them to a music school, but they run off to the gym. They were deducted from musical school in the first six months, and mother, said: «Well, gym, ok, gym». And so, they, unlike good guys, are not afraid to express their views.
6. Good guys float downstream. They like order in everything. They do everything according rules. They have a compartmented mind. They know how everything should be and are striving to this. Bad guys just live. They made mistakes too, and so will accept you the way you are.
7. A good guy will stand by your door and knock on it so timidly, that you will not hear him. And he will go home then. He is polite and civilized. A bad guy will go to you anyway. If you do not open the door, he will most likely enter through the window. This is even more interesting. For him, of course. You will take validol and keep silence for about half an hour after his appearance. Perhaps you will even go into hysterics. But you will not be able to banish him, that’s for sure. It follows that good guys afraid of height, but bad guys have more fantasy.
8. Good guys like educating you and want to change you. They read many books and consider their duty to inform you about this. It happens that sometimes they even write lyrics (half white). And read, read, read them for you. They harass you with grind. And you want to close your ears not to hear them, close your eyes not to see them and run, run from them, as far as possible.
9. Favorite exercise of good guys - reflection on future. You also have a vague chance to be with him in his future. Definitely, this not will be soon or easy, and only if you manage to close eyes on his endless doubts and regrets. He resides in tomorrow, but you live now! Most likely, you will run away with a bad guy, which is more present in today. Bad guys make future now. They act, make mistakes, then back in force. This is more like life.
Good guys despise bad guys, in secret, of course. They did not give out their relationship to bad guys, because remember, that those, opposed to them, are able to fight. Bad guys treat good ones indifferently. They just know whom girls run away with …
Jim
June 13th, 2009 at 3:00 am
So in a nutshell, you got to be an asshole just to get the girl.
Or probably this is an “American culture” thing and does not apply anywhere else in the world.
baddabing
June 23rd, 2009 at 9:15 am
so a bad guy who puts his sperm in you and runs away the next day, is better than a good guy who stays there and takes the responsibility just because the bad guy he makes the “future” now?
oh wow
Thisarticleisashitloadoffuck
June 23rd, 2009 at 9:39 am
9 causes.
1. Bad guys dress like a shit load of fuck, so that they can whoop out a dick easily for girls to gag on them.
2. Bad guys can make GREAT decisions like where we can fuck tonight and where he can run to and hide for the rest of their fucking lifes. Unless they plan to fuck you again and again and again, then decides not to get with you because they’ve got more fucking to do.
3. Bad guys will always be there for us. Because at the end of the day, they know that they’ll be rewarded with sucking and more fucking.
4. Bad guys are just cool. Aren’t they? They will never be influenced or effected by other people’s feelings or opinion. They don’t give a fuck. If they plan to leave us. We can’t stop them. Aww.. How macho…
5. Bad guys are straight forward. That’s how we like it. If our pussies are huge. They’ll say that our pussies are huge and then inform us that they are going out to fuck a tighter pussy.
6. Bad guys allow us to be messed up. So, if we’re messed up. We’ll just get messed up together, so sweet. And fun.
7. Bad guys will barge into the room and tear our clothings apart, then fuck us until he cums all over our faces. Good guys are noob as fuck. They need to run through sweet talks, foreplay, stripdown and then finally, when they feel like they can fuck you. They slowly put it into you. Argh.. sick…
8. Good guys are sweet to us. For what?! Dammit. Jus fuck us! Fuck us! Stop your sweet talking. Fuck us!
9. Err… 9… 9th… cause…. err… Argh! Why am I even writing this article. I need to be fucked now. I’m so horny and slutty! Argh!
Fuck me! Fuck me! I want to gag on your dick! You reading this now! Fuck me!
lolreallyhard
June 30th, 2009 at 12:00 am
Lol very simple article based on assumptions and generalizations.
WILLIAM MIDGETTE
February 2nd, 2011 at 7:31 pm
I TAKE MY TIME AND DON’T GET TIED.
helloosavvs
April 6th, 2011 at 7:50 am
This was not about why women like bad boys. It was about why we don’t like good guys…
...what?
April 21st, 2011 at 1:42 pm
whoever wrote this has been seriously stung by alot of people. bad. doesn’t mean you have to spread this bullshit though. accept your losses, move on, holmes.
Carina
May 12th, 2011 at 11:00 pm
I love bad boys!! I want one right now!! Good guys are boring…
player
May 16th, 2011 at 4:45 am
fuck you author, you are a bad infleunce for women.
I hope you die in a terrible accident
Maud
May 25th, 2011 at 3:55 pm
This is utterly stupid! Bad guys don’t stick around. Argh!
vanessa
May 25th, 2011 at 4:25 pm
Bad guys dress like a shit load of fuck, so that they can whoop out a dick easily for girls to gag on them.
??? Really ???
May 29th, 2011 at 11:24 pm
Did a “bad boy” write this or something? I don’t get it the word bad doesn’t mean cool and confident. And good doesn’t mean wimpy and insecure. You just separated the whole human male population into to very narrow categoreies:
Bad BOy: Cool, Fun, And the old “he takes charge argument”
Good Boy: Wimpy, Boring, and the old “you can at least abuse me sometimes” argument. Have you ever thought that you’re perception of what is fun may be distorted? But anyway who cares because “bad girls” usually like ” bad guys” so have fun you guys. I’ll just have two kids, a dog, and a nice yard with my “boring good girl wife.” Oh no don’t worry about me I’ll manage. the passion may not be as strong but hey I;m not bad enough to get the “hot” girl,so it’s cool. Come on, we “good guys” aren’t all that punkish. You’re stereotyping. There’s nothing wrong with staying around to actually FEED your kids, and spend time with your spouse. Call it what you like, boring, old-fashioned, I say it gets the job done. Bad boys may give that high feeling, but remember it’s just beacuse they’re so “hot” and full of themselves, and somehow you’ve been brainwashed to like big headednes. Hey, not my fault. And everyone makes mistakes. Good guys learn from them not repeat them everyday. Sorry if I didn’t mispell enough words, I’m not really feeling on the wild side today. Anyways, Good day I hope I could “teach you something”
Oops my fault cause #8, man I’ll never be bad
Autumn
June 2nd, 2011 at 8:08 am
Actually you’re all not understanding this.
I’m a woman, and I know exactly why we like bad boys. First of all, we’re all still animals. We want a man that we think can protect us. That’s why us woman are almost always attracted to dominent men. It’s our instinct to be attracted to a handsome, primal guy.
And no, we don’t like bad boys that hit us and are assholes to us. We like men who can stand UP for themselves and show who’s boss, but not to take it too far. I mean, which girl is attracted to an abusive boyfriend? We just want a guy who can outbitch us and show us he has a pair WITHOUT being a total dick. Have confidence, boys. It’s that easy.
Vinay V
June 6th, 2011 at 1:13 pm
Bull shit man…. Its of a time waste.. Nothing is true in this.
Azeri
June 16th, 2011 at 4:03 pm
“With a bad guy you’ll end up living under the bridge while good guy passes on it on its Volvo. :D” I don’t know if I’m a good guy or bad guy I think I’m neutral guy. Cause I took a shit on the Whole World long time ago. Anyway, peace.
James
June 17th, 2011 at 3:23 am
This author can go stick their head up their ass but I think it’s already there. I’m a “good” guy and this is all wrong. Yeah I care about your opinion not because I’m hiding behind you but because I value it and you. And I’m not a wimp and could kick all those bad boy asses.
whatever
June 23rd, 2011 at 1:28 am
It is perfectly simple to understand this - although it is not something that is easily accepted.
The answer is quite simply that of male and female, female is very much the less significant of the 2 sexes…
Being the less significant of the two sexes, women are used to being treated like crap. More simply put: it is alien for women to expect to be treated well and so women seek out what they know and expect.
When a douche treats a girl badly, she will be upset, but she knows how to deal with being treated badly (it is what she has come to expect). On the other hand - if a guy treats a girls with equal love and respect, she is can deal with this as again it is alien to her.
It’s unfortunate - but it’s as close to the truth as you’re going to get.
whatever
June 23rd, 2011 at 1:31 am
correction:
…she can’t deal with this as again it is alien to her.
Confused
July 1st, 2011 at 6:09 am
You know, I think I understand the central problem here. Good guys sounds like douches and bad guys sound like secure men. I think what needs to be changed are bad guys to secure men and good guys to insecure men. Then, you get something much more descriptive and accurate. That’s all.
I consider myself to be a good guy, and that’s what people have called me, and yet I show more of the traits of a bad guy. Oh well.
A true good guy does care about the other person. A true insecure man just wants the other person to like him. Big difference. It’s a good article, just needs some readjustment.
women are idiots
July 4th, 2011 at 7:40 pm
what a load of shit
Dave R
July 9th, 2011 at 1:43 am
Hey I’m a Bad Boy.. I look like a Bay Boy and yes in the past I’ve treated women like the Bad Boy in the article. Trust me women like us Bad Boys cause we are exciting and unpredictable. I’m still a Bad Boy but now I’ve met a woman I adore so I married her. now I’m her Bad Boy and I’m Loyal to her and her warrior. She loves being her big strong man that can protect her from the shit in the world.
Jake
July 11th, 2011 at 9:08 am
Dave why do you keep capitalizing “Bad Boy” like its an official title? Or are you just discretely campaigning the old Will Smith/Martin Lawrence movie? You sound like a typical meat head that thinks being “tough” is all there is to life. You know whats crazy? All the “shit” in the world as you put in is only in existence because of that mentality. Everyone thinks they have to be a badass to protect their girl and end up trying to assert themselves to anyone who accidentally looks at them the wrong way. Honestly, I think most of those people are more insecure than “good” guys anyway. I would say there is a definite intelligence factor here that is being overlooked. Smart girls don’t need bad boys, because they’re not going to get drunk and walk down a dark alley like a fuck tard, so they won’t need a “Bad Boy” to come in with his fists flying to save her from the danger that her in stupidity got her into in the first place. Also, hot girls usually aren’t the brightest, so it’s expected that they’re going to want nothing more than an affliction t-shirt sporting tool to “protect her from all the shit in the world.” This article was clearly written by a douchebag who has had success chasing drunken sluts, and therefore feels like the alpha male. I’ve got news for you, my friend. While you’re off sporting your bad boy look and picking up drunk bar chicks until you’re 35, us “good guys” will be off bettering ourselves and learning how to apply knowledge in a way that will benefit society. And I promise you, smart and sexy girls are much more attracted to that than they are to you. aAnd also… they are much more fun than the average big-titted blonde slut. Do a bit of research perhaps before you pursue a writing career. Thank you, goodnight.
Jake
July 11th, 2011 at 9:31 am
Oh p.s… is #7 a joke? Good guys don’t knock loud enough? HAHA sorry bro, ill get my brass knucks and give that door a good RAT A TAT TAT next time…
Izaac
July 13th, 2011 at 2:42 am
I don’t get this bullshit because I am ashamed to say I am a good
Guy and I can fight,I don’t dress all fancy like the way u described
It I don’t run away and good guys well here in Australia we have
proved that nerds dorks wimps aka good guys have bigger dicks
than Bad boys so yeah y don’t u go wank u hermaphrodite
Paulius
July 14th, 2011 at 6:20 pm
So basically, women do not like to evolve and just stick to their primitive animal instincts in being with the dominant male and being his fuck object?
Whats wrong with being a human?
I honestly just want the author to respond to all of the comments that have been posted on here.
nandali
July 15th, 2011 at 5:54 am
i’m dating a man who used to do bad stuff in his past but half of the criteria set for the bad boy don’t even correspond him…so i think this article is a bit a generalization but isn’t deepen enough to highlight the reason..my boy was doing bad thing but is a caring person who live a decent life now respect his mom and his girlfriend in such way that i never saw from a so-called “good guy” who never did anything wrong if i’m hurt he’s feelin hurt if i’m sad he’s always there tryin to know what’s wrong always caring for me taking care 24/24h 7days he’s been raised with value and in a good way just did a stupid mistake during his teenage which unfortunately happen to many youth, but he never did half of the criteria they said in that article beating women, cheating constantly and leaving the girl heartless no way he’s the total opposite a real sweetheart full of feelings so i guess u forgot to mention that there’s other categorie which fit between the two extreme of so-called good and bad, people in the middle..
Felipe
July 21st, 2011 at 4:47 am
They should change the website’s name to highschool girl’s passion
Low self-esteem girls sure do like bad boys.
tien vu
August 1st, 2011 at 3:53 am
Whoever wrote this article are fucking stupid. writing shit like cause #3, about good guys don’g help you and shit, proved the world that you don’t even understand what is good and what is bad. If the dude doesn’t help you for your problems, he’s obviously the bad guy.
Whateverb
August 26th, 2011 at 10:38 pm
Let me ask all of you “good guys” who have a problem with this something. What makes you so good for a woman? Is it because you think you’re so sweet and talk about your feelings and always comfort her. Guess what that just makes you another one of her girlfriends. It also makes you a sneaky bastard because the only reason you’re so nice it’s because you want to get in her pants otherwise you wouldn’t have a problem with just being a friend. Grow a pair of balls tell her you want her now and be a man. Stop bitching about why she doesn’t like you “like that” and she keeps going back to the “bad boy”. Show some balls and maybe she won’t Mr. Nice guy. You’re full of crap anyway you’re trying to get in her pants as much as the bad boy is, you’re just going about it the sneaky way while the bad boy is straight up.
TruthHurts
August 27th, 2011 at 9:49 pm
The “Bad Boys” are the first to crack in any situation of stress or combat, time to grow up boys.
Kinda True
August 31st, 2011 at 1:04 am
Now that I think about it, there is a lot of truth to what “Whateverb.” Although, some people must be credited with trying to fight the urge to only want a girl to “get in her pants.” I guess you could call me a “good guy” but funny thing is I stay away from girls at the moment for that sole reason. If the only benefit I can find from a girl is “to get in her pant”, then I probably don’t deserve her. Just my opinion, but I agree a lot with “Whateverb.”
Kinda True
August 31st, 2011 at 1:06 am
Meant to say: a lot of truth to what “Whateverb” said.
KR
September 1st, 2011 at 11:37 am
Completely agree wid “Whateverb”
I was a very good guy and went thru a lot of rejection from girls and finally turned into a bad guy and the world around me changed..!!!! Now, I get all that I ever wanted.. Read David DeAngelo’s articles and books.. !!! He says just one thing, you either fuck a girl or you dont.. there is nothing called “I almost fucked her”. It is either black or white. So, be a bad guy, demand for what you want and if it is not given to you, just walk-off…
Good guy turned bad?
September 10th, 2011 at 10:49 am
Well, I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 months ago and some of the latest words still ring in my ears: like: you never make decision about where to go on holiday, I always do it for us, you don’t know anything about account, I dont know how you would survive without me, buy expensive clothes for yourself and not bothered about saving money to buy a house. Well she was right about all of them and I confessed. But the thing was that I’m very easy, I don’t mind if we don’t go to for example New York because she wanted to go to China. I always thought I value her opinion and as long as we are together I don’t mind where to go. Even hell. In reference to account: we lived together and because she lived from home, she was volunteered to do the account and I never even once checked her calculations because I thought I trust her. Then she thought I can not survive without her. Just to let you know that I used to be a karate champion and am a real surviour as I left my native country and resided I’m the UK, went to uni, learnt the culture, language bla bla bla and now have a career. I have come a long way and never get intimidated by anyone or anything. If I see Mike Tyson confronting me, that does not bother me at all. But if you look at me and my manner I’m so calm and friendly that some people confuse my kindness with weakness.
Anyway, after splitting up with my girl, I saw a mutual friend of us(he was her friend before I met her then became my friend too) and happened to tell him what was on my chest. He was very upset and turned around and said you are too nice. That’s the problem. Some girls like bad guys. When I heard that I googled ( why girls like bad guys) and that’s how I came across this article. When I read it it all made sense to me. I think it’s a very good article but the words bad and good don’t do justice here. But I have to say that I agree with all of it. And found it very eye opening. I’m going to use some of them and tylor them my way: make decisions, dint accept everything just to please the girl, she must feel she has earned it. Yes I would check the account and be cleverer with money. I think being too much agreeable and you make full out of yourself.
lola
September 25th, 2011 at 4:58 am
To be honest, I enjoyed the comments even more than the article. The way most of you guys, just don’t want to admit that there are women who actually enjoy being with a so called bad boy.
a fact that has not been mentioned is the very one, that every woman (and yeah I am aware of the fact that I am exaggerating at this point, because there is no way of generalizing all the women on earth.. still…) wants a bad boy in her live. and not only because, they might dress better or live a more exciting live but also because they wish to think of themselves as the ones who are able to tame those bad boys for good.
y’ know what I am talking bout?
the whole I-am-a-bad-boy-and-not-ready-to-settle-down-vibe turns women on.
(again, i dont want to generalize)
player
September 25th, 2011 at 5:11 am
Any woman that prefers bad boys deserves painful rape !
Ali
September 25th, 2011 at 6:05 am
I believe that this mother fucker author must find a jackass. because jackass has a large pines and can fuck you hard and tough and deeper than other animals.and something else that I must mention to author is that Jackass is very self confident and can support you mother fucker in every thing especially in doggy style.
FUCK YOU….From Bad Boye
Randy G
October 7th, 2011 at 9:09 pm
Reason number 7: “A good guy … is polite and civilized. A bad guy will go to you anyway. If you do not open the door, he will most likely enter through the window. This is even more interesting…”
So, a bad boy is “interesting” because he is a DATE RAPIST and stalker who refuses to stop until he gets what he came for, while the nice guy is boring, because he actually takes “no” for an answer, and goes home? Talk about mixed messages, here. This whole article refutes almost everything that feminist activists say that women want from a man. This is the most anti-feminist article that I have ever read, and it is written by a woman. Women hate gentlemen.
PissedChick
October 13th, 2011 at 7:50 am
….. If any of this article was true, then what the hell kind of female is this? a lil sissy b***h? God, a female needs to know how to protect her damn self because she can’t always rely on someone else to do s**t for her. Lazy lil punk…. I have too many annoyed complaints to continue this comment. YOUR ARTICLE IS BS!
PissedChick
October 13th, 2011 at 7:57 am
oh, and PS. I loved most of the comments. The article, can go soak in acid on the author’s face.
omid
October 31st, 2011 at 5:28 pm
author,with this opinion,you will lose.
bad boys are coward and loser in fights.i am 22 year old boy and i have lived along side of different boys including bad boys.in fact bad boys are coward and loser in all fights.they try to show dominance to you but it is all fake.real strong and brave boys are martial artists.
bad boys are coward,mentally weak,disrespectful,no love,hateful,depressed,impolite persons in a suit of fake dominance which you are cheated by.
in other hand,you think that every boy who is not bad boy is shy and has weakness in himself!
you are wrong.good boys include variant of boys.many of sport men,martial artists,artists,…are good boys which mean respectful,honest,healthy,real strong,happy,lover,sexy,…
i think your problem is that you think good boy mean shy,coward and weak boys.
and also,bad boy mean strong,brave and protector of girls.
bad boys are so weak,coward and hateful in suit of fake dominance.
good boys include variant boys.strong,normal,weak.
SH*T
November 14th, 2011 at 11:16 am
This is nonsense, its just the girl’s future’s gonna be affected and she would realize how better the good guy was than the bad guy cuz the good guy is tryna sacrifice everything for her while the bad guy doesn’t even care about doing anything.
Amlan
December 1st, 2011 at 9:04 am
I have no problems with my girl not liking me…
may be I’m too boring.
n yes, I’m a good boy as per the definition by the author though not exactly..
I am an Indian Bengali..
but my question is ” if you girls like bad boys, why do you complain when you are hurt ? ”
when we provide support , you say ” he is spineless ” … No we r not..
we are boys who understand how it feels when someone hurts you.
I’ve been rejected 3 times by 3 girls.
the first two didn’t matter much coz they were commited.
n guess that wasn’t love in the two cases.
But this time.. I know that’s love.
I don’t know if she will ever love me… She might find smone more deserving than me , but no one in this world can love her more than me.
ALLEYKAT
December 6th, 2011 at 1:25 am
Some women like to be treated a certain way. The End.
alex
December 20th, 2011 at 8:32 pm
Well I am a good guy, and one with confidence and self-respect. I’m ‘old-school’, I will go out of my way to show a girl I care, I will give her a good time. I will not change into a bad boy for any girl, no matter how much I like her. I say this as another special girl has fallen for a boy who forced his tongue down her throat. But this makes me more determined than ever to stay the way i am. I have little respect for this author.
Shane
December 28th, 2011 at 3:13 am
See all of you go on about this being rubbish bit at the end of the day women always do go for the bad boys
Bobby
January 27th, 2012 at 6:31 am
Good men appreciate the female race enough to be able to give them privacy, comfort, well-being, as well as a home to sleep in and raise children. Bad men come and go when their sexual desires are at a high and they need of your so called “Affection” for them to feel better. I try to be nice and take my time, but modern day influences cause women to make wrong decisions due to superficial facts that deceive a person into thinking one is better than the other by simple appearance and confidence levels. The guy you talk to is confident because he’s had other girls in the past, the nice guy is timid because he doesn’t fool around with just anyone, meaning… You are special. Isn’t that what all girls want? To be “Special”? Not that being with other girls is bad, but what if your just another girl?
Ryan
February 3rd, 2012 at 5:09 pm
The author of this article is clearly an attention whore. Good guys are too afraid to fight? I know a guy who gave his crush a kidney, while her bad-ass boyfriend decided to break up after finding out that she had a kidney failure. Good guys are ready to protect their crush despite the gossip.
Rachel
February 3rd, 2012 at 5:26 pm
Good guys despise bad guys, why? Because they can’t stand it when someone treats their crush poorly and they would gladly punch into that douche’s face if only the girl didn’t stop him. Bad guys treat good guys indifferently, because they treat everyone like that. They care shit about people around them including their girlfriend. So whoever wrote this is the reason why moral values are declining and this world is becoming a shittier place everyday.