It is very important that young parents are aware of their responsibility of a child, even when he is in a mother’s womb. It is from this moment a new human life begins, and as you know, we are responsible for those whom we tamed, those whom we brought into this world, we should respond for them, as for themselves!

Indeed, life of a small piece, in fact depends on parents.

Through parental generations you can see some similar behavioral motives repeated from year to year and from generation to generation. For some reason, many couples suffer from very similar problems. Do not make typical parental mistakes. Below you can find 5 most popular mistakes.

1. No alcohol!

For example, you cannot consume alcohol during pregnancy. The point is that every human body produces its own internal alcohol, which is involved in oxygen delivery to brain. Body of children, whose mothers used alcohol during pregnancy, after birth, is unable to synthesize its own necessary amount, and this in turn leads to a decline in their intellectual capacity.

Another reason why alcohol consumption is contraindicated to pregnant. Placenta, transmissing all food substances from mother to child, is unable to cope with alcohol splitting, leaving it at the stage of half-decay. As a result of these reactions, substances toxic to brain cells are formed. So it turns out that mother’s body is exempted of alcohol, as fetus receives toxic products.

2. Do not dally off child’s education

The next most common parental mistake: while a child is small, the main thing is to make him full and dressed, and we will start bringing him up later! This is not the case. That is when he starts getting to know the world, still not talking, you should be closely engaged in his upbringing.

And you should do so not through a method of lecturing, but personal example. It is early childhood when tab behavior in various life situations takes place. And these stereotypes are copied from us, adults.

3. Be an example for your child

If any event in a house becomes a cause for alcoholisation, and Dad watching TV with a bottle of beer - is a normal case, and a child is accustomed to see you with a cigarette in teeth, do not be surprised, if your child necessarily begins drinking and smoking later.

Please note that children and adolescents, who already have experience of smoking cigarettes, start smoking hashish, and the company, in which acquaintance with drugs occurs, is usually linked through beer, gin-tonic, and other “soft” drinks. Know that your kid will take into future models of family behavior in grief and joy.

4. Take care of your child’s environment

Now the main thing - about your child’s environment. You need to take care of this since young age. A child’s soul and brain are open to information, absorbed with the first cry. And material filling “storage” of your baby depends only on people surrounding him since birth.

There is no need to say later that poor child’s environment ruined him. While a child is small, it is you, parents, who can determine a place street will take in a children life, control terms of his communication.

5. Do not overdo

We want to draw attention of parents, whose children revealed hyperactivity syndrome and insufficient attention at first attempts of learning. These children have high mobility, they feel difficult to focus during training, but outbreaks of nervousness are calmed after eating sweets. Typically, teachers in kindergarten or primary school draw attention of parents to this fact. Be vigilant, do not leave this baby without consulting of a specialist, neurologist, neuropsychiatrist. Correction at an early age helps preventing future problems.

Remember!

Children not helped in preschool and early school age, further become not only headache for parents and teachers, they suffer themselves. And, realizing that they are different from others in their studies, they often try to compensate for this by becoming negative leaders in a class, team. This is a major risk factor, because, as practice shows, they will subconsciously seek narcotization.

Remember that no computer, no discos and no substitute can replace communication with parents. Remember that 80 percent of teenagers get first experience of narcotization in the yard of your own house or in your porch, formally being in front of their parents. Therefore, try to make him spending at least 16 years of his spare time in the circle of his family, surrounded by warmth and affection, receiving answers in his family, rather than on the street. Parental authority should become a guiding light during whole child’s life.

A wise man once said: “You just should be with children.” Remember these words. Be always.