One my friend answered this question without hesitation: “What men want in a woman?” -  “Sex!” But then she added: “Well, whether he wants something more - here is the question!”

Carolina was a typical realist. Particularly with regard to issues of intimate relationships. Being a pretty girl, she learnt simple truth that sexual desire is leading feeling in a range of ones, experienced by men to women. In all this, Carolina, however, could resist persistent men harassment, temptations and, consequently, save virginity.

This is just a preamble, to give you an idea about Carolina’s sophistication on man’s essence knowledge.

Carolina believed that she should not date a man for a long to determine his true views on a woman! She contended that good face control at the first date is enough to see a man’s mind. I fully trust her technique, because it was tested not only by Carolina, but many of our friends. And, as subsequent monitoring showed, Carolina’s face control always helped to get a man pegged unmistakably.

What men want in a woman. LOOK

Alas, we rarely look into his eyes, moreover, try to read his sight. Especially if you love yourself, if emotions prevail, you have no time for reasoning. You should! Look - is something that expresses essence, it cannot cheat. Even if you are trying to deceive through eyes, then, actually, eyes just show lie. While impassioned look - a sign of sensual desire, timid glance shows tenderness, persistent look reveals desire or attempt to subjugate. If a man looks away continually - he probably wants to hide his true intentions.

What men want in a woman. TOUCHES

Touching means feelings. If a man cares of you (whether it’s love, or desire, or attachment, or just interest), he not only wants to be with you, he will continually touch you. However, touching can be different. If a man uses every opportunity to touch you gently, as if by chance, as though accidentally, he has deep feelings for you. If a man touches unceremoniously, he obviously wants to accelerate convergence and have you. If man’s touches are delicate and romantic, his task, most likely, is to imitate feelings, in other words, charm you fraudulently. If a man does not touch during a date, and you even cannot notice his attempts to do so, he still does not understand whether he wants you, and keeps you at a distance just in case.

What men want in a woman. CALLING NAME

According to the theory of psychoanalysis, interacting on a first-name basis hides mystery of convergence. Therefore, a man’s intuitive desire to call your name is a sign of his seriousness towards you, and, accordingly, if he feels more convenient to use pronouns - he hardly is serious. Too frequent use of your name in a conversation should alert you. Expect some cunning, guile from such man.

What men want in a woman. INITIATIVE

If a man shows no initiative at a date, it is not just awful, it is a disaster. This surely shows he has no strong feelings to you: no human interest, neither love nor sexual attraction. And do not try to justify his shiftlessness through shyness or complexes. A real feeling is so powerful, that it overcomes everything. I would say that: a real feeling makes everyone proactive. But fear hyper initiative! As all excess has a warped sense. A hyper-man is driven not by feelings, but a desire to “cut a dash”, make you admiring him.

What men want in a woman. INNER CORE

Carolina divided all men on 7 major types: player conqueror, hero-lover, mother’s darling, looser, family man, ideal. She believed that correct conversation is enough: playing along in a confident tone to give a man possibility to open and then determine his inner core with a great deal of probability. And then you can predict relationship you can expect with such man.

Player. His life motto is passion. Attitude towards women is determined by curiosity, novelty, unpredictability. For him, you are one of many. Victory over you means ending of relations.

Conqueror. His life motto is conquest of peaks, taking bastions, pursuit of elusive. Relations with women for him are an eternal battle. His motto is - who wins who. But if he is interested in you, you are the best, decent, not like everyone. And he will be with you until you are consistent with this high plate.

Hero-lover. What such men want in a woman. This type of men appreciates love. He falls in love easily, is capable of passion, he is sincere in his foolish impulse. But his problem is that he does not know how to feel strong feelings for a long. Time kills relations with him. If you’re ready for a bright and short affair - you are lucky. If you wait for long and solid relationships, he is not your man.

Mother’s son. He prefers staying “under some woman’s wing” and feeling her constant care of him. Initially, his mother plays this role, then - his wife. His feelings for you will be serious and long, but it will never be passion and madness. As for feelings (including sex), all will be safe, right, and unfortunately, droningly. But you will provide a strong man’s shoulder by yourself.

Loser. This man needs to cry on your shoulder. He will bind to you quickly and thoroughly, but be ready for his constant pessimism, complaints. Depression is a decisive state of this type of man’s mind. And you will have to serve as a home psychotherapist. But as this type is sensitive, vulnerable, impulsive, he will be a great lover. Do you agree to accept such advantages and disadvantages, decide!

Family man. What such men want in a woman. Their purpose - marriage, family, children. He is a good lover, husband, father. He will be your strong shoulder and a stone wall. But he is likely to be jealous, tyrannical, and will solve everything on his own. Do not expect equity in such union.

Ideal. What can we say here? Ideal means ideal, and his intentions coincide with your expectations, and a list of his advantages excesses his minor flaws. The main thing is not to make a mistake and take some of remaining types as ideal.

Well, of course, Carolina found her ideal. It was her first man, husband, and she lives with him to this day. You can believe or not.

But I think that this meeting was not a gift of fate. Carolina gave herself this meeting. She had been searching for her ideal for a long, and found him, and, moreover, she aroused ideal feelings in him.