Women often overestimate a role of physical appearance, suffering from all kinds of complexes. What if he does not like me? This is an issue torturing almost all of us before a date. What if the answer to this question seems obvious?

Women are often affected by inferiority complex, associated with appearance. Everyone wants to be liked, and women - twice. This is our nature. It is a natural desire. The more you are liked - the lower risks of the world are for us. Woman is a weak creature (at least, this view is cultivated so actively, that even women themselves believed in it), and she is just afraid.

What if she is homely? How can she attract? And what is more important - how to find a partner? There are so many young, beautiful, attractive women around … How to compete?They have all, but she has nothing. She just has to retreat into herself, read sentimental novels and watch family series, thinking about failed love and a prince on a white horse, the only one that could find mine of merits under ugly appearance.

Appearance is not the main thing

So - nothing of the sort. Novels and series are for those who do not believe in themselves. Surely, appearance is important. But! First impressions are only half the battle. Further we have quite opposite situation.

No beauty can keep a man’s attention permanently, if she shows such «nice» qualities, like stupidity, bitchiness (in its worst manifestation), boorishness, unwillingness to listen to people’s opinion (especially - if it is a man’s opinion). And if it turns out that her hands are not assigned to shoulders, but to … well, you know, and she can not even make a decent omelet, no beauty can save. She will definitely attract attention, no doubts. At first. But then … Then, conversation will make her what she is.

You always have chances!

Consequently, if a homely woman has all kinds of advantages, if she is intelligent, kind, cooks well, is capable of compassion, attentive listener (especially if she is able to listen to a man), then she has every chance to keep your attention. Question one - how to attract this attention.

The easiest and most efficient way - to believe in yourself. What does it mean - homely? There should not be such word in a woman’s dictionary. A women should be interesting. Flashy. Attractive. This are main things. Show me the word of beauty?

Interesting, flashy and attractive

In order to achieve a desired result, except self-confidence, you need to create a certain image. This is easily achieved with help of clothes and make-up. Do not portray yourself in the process of Cinderella oppression by a stepmother. No faceless clothes! Everything should be fine, elegant and beautiful (yes, here - beautiful).

There is no bad figure, you should know this. But there are unsuitable clothes for specific figure. You can dress a model so that her figure would look ugly, and a squab will look like a model in appropriate dress.

Weight does not play a role

By the way, about squabs. Standard clothing is not suitable for such figures. You will have to bother studio. To sew clothes in the light of all features (up to the last extra fold … well, let’s call it skin). Only jersey can be standard - it is versatile and equally suitable for any type of figure. Thin women have less problems. They can go to any store.

A good dress is a card of invitation

The main requirement for clothes - elegance and lack of standard. You can distract yourself from standard buying clothes in stores, mix various models, brands and styles. Just act harmoniously, except, instead of grace and elegance, you can get a fine vegetable scarecrow.

Make-up is our savior

The main requirement for cosmetics - to disguise flaws and emphasize pluses of face. Well, there is no ugly faces. But there is wrong makeup. For those who are not confident in own abilities and style, there are visagistes. They will be happy to demonstrate their skills.

Confidence

But self-confidence is still a determining factor for attracting attention, as it was repeatedly mentioned in our articles. If a woman is confident she will not be ignored by male attention - she will have this attention. Whether it is a power background, or just emotional contamination, but the fact remains. Ugly woman’s confidence of in her own attractiveness gives a lot more, than the most perfect beauty.

Well, when attention is already drawn, you just have to show your hidden values: kindness and benevolence, empathy and compassion, intelligence and tenderness. And everything will be not just good, but even excellent. Here is a recipe of female happiness!