Both men and women dream of ideal relations. But we often do not know how to achieve it. Want us sharing this knowledge?

Beginning mutual relations is easy, but keeping a thin, but strong thread connecting you is uneasy. It is necessary to learn struggling for love, overcoming inevitable complexities and keeping that good that once connected you together. Is there a universal recipe of happiness? How to keep love and passion, learn bypassing acute angles?

1. Break stereotypes

In due course couples develop a standard line of behavior, original reaction to each other’s actions. If you break a stereotype of behaviour and behave not the way a partner expects (in positive sense), you can deck relations with new paints. For example, if you are usually angry that a man of your dream forgets washing dishes, try not to be irritated next time, and behave somehow differently: for example, joke. It will work.

2. Touches to each other do miracles

Certainly, you embrace and kiss each other in the morning and in the evening, gently embrace each other after sex. But it is not enough! Simple actions — stroking his hand during joint TV watching, walk hand in hand along the street, imperceptible caress on a visit, cinema, club — all this creates absolutely special communication between you. Touches to a partner during a day put happiness hormones in action, and you feel closer to each other at instinctive level.

3. Say “no” to friendly relations

In theory, being not only beloved, but also friend for your man - is quite good. In practice such communication kills all sexual inclination. If you lose that special touch and inclination, which can arise only between a man feeling passion and a woman (but no friends), your relations will turn from sharply-sexual to friendly. Leave friendly conversations to girlfriends.

4. Stick to a sex diet

Sex — not time for discussions and romantic conversations (though women often forget about it). Strengthen relations, sticking to an original sex diet: make sex a usual part of your life, as a diet or a campaign in sports hall. Include sex in your schedule, set a purpose to make love minimum two times a week and follow this rule strictly, without looking at weariness, headache and desire to have a sleep.

5. Search for compromise

Making decisions together, try to consider each other’s interests. Even if your interests are opposite, you still can find a reasonable compromise. Dream to spend holiday for shopping in Europe, and your darling dreams of Egyptian sand and palm trees? Stop your choice on Turkey: you will have both sand and good prices for clothes.

6. More positive, less negative

There is more effective way to show discontent, than being angry and making rows. Hide negative between two positive comments: “Dear, I like the way you wash dishes. The only thing that afflicts me — you do it so seldom. But I am assured you will bring me pleasure next time”.

7. Listen to an echo

When you start a serious conversation, concerning your mutual relations, you are frequently so anxious how to answer a partner, that not always hear what he says to you. Therefore at any finding-out of relations, repeating each other’s wordsis very important — so you will be assured you hear and are heard.

8. Learn tolerance

Nobody is perfect, and our “cockroaches” will not go anywhere. Instead of wasting nerves on each other’s lacks, try to search positive sides in them, even if first they are not obvious. If, for example, he reacts to a football match too roughly, do not be angry — remind yourself that he is a passionate lover, as well as fan.

9. Support him

Probably, you not always agree with a man: do not approve his quarrel with the best friend or consider that his boss behaves unfairly towards him. But no matter how you treat this all, do not forget the most important thing — you always should be on his side. “Being on his side” does not mean you should occupy a position “dear, you are always right”. It is not necessary to approve quarrels with friend, but it is necessary to support and listen to his arguments. It is not necessary to approve behaviour of his boss, but you should not go into hysterics with shouts “Why you are always guilty?” Let him feeling your hidden support always and in everything.

10. Surprise

You should not wait for a holiday to present your loved one a gift. Gifts have much more sense, when you make them unexpectedly. Get a lovely habit to present each other not necessarily expensive, but pleasant trifles. He can drop in a shop on his road from work and buy you a strawberry basket, and you can go in a grocery shop and choose fruit candy for him. Such trifles will show you really think and care about each other.

11. Arrange appointments

Novelty of relations smoothes out in due course, and passion is replaced by boredom. It is not necessary to think that love went away — you just got used to each other and lost charm of first months of relations. You can easily change this: arrange each other unusual appointments, and sensation of novelty and freshness of relations will return! Certainly, a usual campaign in a restaurant or cinema will not solve a problem. Here you will need something unexpected — tickets for an unusual concert, snowboard lessons, boating — everything that is difficult to foresee in advance.