Each of us wishes to love and be loved, however not everyone manages to be successful in this. What’s a problem? Psychologists, who  composed the list you need to observe to keep and improve relations with your close people, answer this question.

1. It is necessary to know what your second half thinks of your relations. You do not wish to fall in love with the one who is not going to be frank with you?

2. Do not confuse love and sex. Often in the beginning of relations sex and passion are wrongly accepted for love.

3. You should know what you want from relations, and speak about it with a partner sincerely. Many men and women are afraid to speak openly about their desires and try to hide them. As a result, there is a feeling of disappointment, because you do not receive what you want. Relations is not a game in guesses. Affinity is not possible without honesty.

4. You should be one command. Possessing various abilities, data and possibilities, you should aspire to one purpose.

5. Learn to respect a partner together with all his differences from you. There are no identical people. And life therefore is interesting because we all are different.

6. It is not necessary to be reconciled with partner lacks. There are no ideal people, and the way we concern lacks of others: being reconciled with them, trying to correct them, is very important. If something does not suit you, speak about it openly. Allow your partner explaining, why he acts this way. Only then you can come to consent.

7. Solve all problems as soon as they appear. If you shelve the decision of problems, they will turn to an avalanche, which will not leave a trace from your relations.

8. Learn to agree. Times when bride was chosen by parents passed. Now culture of relations between man and woman plays a smaller role, than earlier. All depends only from you.

9. Learn to listen a partner. Then he will have a feeling of support.

10. Work over a sensation of affinity. Affinity never appears by itself. When it is absent, people become uninteresting to each other.

11. Share plans for the future with each other. Do not regard wedding as an agreement thanks to which you will spend the rest of life together.

12. Take care of personal hygiene. It is impossible to underestimate a role it plays in your relations.

13. Do not forget about sex. It is one of important elements of your relations. Conversations under one blanket after good sex create sensation of affinity.

14. Never go to bed, if you have negative feelings. Try to get rid of them before a dream.

15. Do not be afraid of exusing. Each of us makes mistakes, and the earlier you manage to correct them, the better.

16. You should depend from each other, but this dependence should not be absolute. Complete dependence from a partner makes both unfortunate.

17. Keep self-esteem and self-respect. It will be easier to your second half to love you, if you love yourselve.

18. Decorate relations with new interests. Try to be engaged in any kind of sports, which none of you was engaged in before.

19. Co-operate with each other. Share duties. Than your cooperation will be more fair, your relations will be especially close.

20. Take good care of your health. Good health – a keystone to success of any relations.