720752_b.gifWhy do they cheat on us? Woman have been puzzling over this question from time immemorial and what they have come to? There can be many reasons, and they can be absent at all! A hunter’s instinct, what is it?

A man having a family, children, position in a society, frequently quite a respectable citizen sense it. And only his half knows that from time to time he is delayed not on work…

Scientists constantly repeat us about a man’s polygamous nature. A male tries to impregnate as much females in his life, as possible. As for “impregnate” - they hardly really want it, cheating, but participation in similar process for pleasure really attracts them.

We, in our turn, try to prevent this nature in every way: we do everything to become unique, the best, sometimes we take offence or we make scandals, and sometimes, we cannot suffer cheating, and we leave, come back, forgive or do not come back any more and do not forgive. Trying to understand why a man cheats all the same is difficult for a woman, and frequently impossible.

And when once again, having learnt about your loved one’s petty intrigue, you ask: «Why?». He looks guilty and says: “forgive me”, swears that that, another one, means nothing for him, that it is the devil’s work and now he will be only with you.

He actually becomes more attentive and, apparently, you have a second “honeymoon”. And you forgive, or (someone after the first, someone after the tenth time) take your things and leave. For ever.

There are many reasons for cheating: maybe, the truth, “it is the devil’s work”, he simply wanted something new, a girl appeared too energetic, he wanted to realise his imaginations, thirst of adventures tortured him.

There are still such altruists who wish to give pleasure to the biggest possible quantity of women, to improve technics. Probably, this is one of ways of self-affirmation, or the next justification of dissoluteness. In general, a lot of things happen in life, nobody is insured from it.

It is very difficult to cope with adultery, but, statistically, the older a woman becomes, she treats adventures of her windy companion especially tolerantly. Whether wounds on her heart become smaller? Likely, no.

For the majority of fans to have an affair that, another one, really means nothing, this is simply sports. At least, they confirm so. There is personal, and there is a family.

You will forgive and wait with a sinking heart, when he is distributed by the next «ring», you will not forgive and kick yourself, cry at night without your loved one and reproach yourself with invincible pride. But if he really loves you, he will not cheat.

If you are the most expensive one in his life, he will think hundred times, before making something he will regret of later, something that can potentially cause you pain. Of course, it is better, if you never learn about it, and living and knowing he cheats on you from time to time is painful and difficult.

Though there are women who say that all of them are same, allow men cheating, after all he always comes back. Whom they try to deceive with such statements: themselves or others, or simply do not wish to look unfortunate and thrown in front of their friends.

Arabs have a good saying: what happens once, can happen never more, and what happens twice - happens in the third time by all means. A choice is always, of course, for you: to leave, stay with a cheater, reconcile or make rows. But the main thing: do not blame yourself you did something wrong.

If you wish to keep your loved one nearby, be wiser, do not put a wall of alienation and insult between you. Certainly, it will be difficult, but try to be even more gentle and more careful, believe, if you are dear to him, he will not want to lose you.